You can suffer staying stuck or you can suffer the change of getting better.
#2) Ladies…if he treats you like crap that means he really does not give a crap about you or your feelings. Thats a sign! You will never change him into what you want. You will never make him care about you or love you. Pack up your self-respect and walk away because He is not into you and its only going to get worse.
So ladies if you recall,I stated that I would start a series on my blog #TalkinWithPhoe about the signs of a man who is not really into you.
First let me start by saying…its okay that a guy isnt into you. It does not make you some monster. Its doesnt make you some awful person. It doesnt make you unattractive in personality and it doesnt make you ugly. We have to learn not to put ourself esteem in the hands of Men or Anyone else for that matter.
So let me start with #TheChase. Men are hunter/gatherers. That means they tend to like to do the hunting. Its been my experience and those Ive polled,that a guy who really wants you will come for you. So if you find yourself #Chasing a guy you like…He is just not into you. If you always,have to go to him or call him or text him or contact him first all the time. He isnt into you. So if you want to have a long term relationship,that particular guy is not it. Take heed and just be friends with this one.
Ill be back tomorrow for #2.
Enjoy your day. Hope it helped.
If you have any personal questions just send me a message.
This is how Ive been feeling lately. I have so much going on (good things) but alot.
Absolutely love this new blue for the fall! #FallFashion
Ladies,Im about to do a series of things Ive learned in all my years of studying men and womens relationships.
Ive seen females get their feelings hurt because they do not see the signs or just ignore them.
One of the very first things you need to do ladies…is love yourself. Because once you realize your value,you see clearly & you wont be on the defensive when when your bff tells you some guy is just using you for his benefit.
Ill be back soon and Ill start the list of things to look for.
Remember ladies….this can mean your spouse as well. Men do stay married for their own benefits.
Talk Soon #TalkinWithPhoe #LifeBlogger
I thought this was funny yet a great pic because its so very real. He will never forget this moment. #GoDad
If you say you are going to do something then do it. I remember when a persons word actually meant something. Back in the day a mans word is all he had. Its how he paid his bills,took care of his family and set the stage for his character. Nowadays people just say whatever and do whatever else.
I have a friend who is long distance relationship. Only 5 hours but still….
So he calls her says I miss you so much and next month Im coming to see you. She is,of course excited,so she makes sure that particular weekend is free. They talk as usual the entire month. At one point,the weekend prior she says “babes are we still on?”. He says “No Doubt…I really need to see my girl!”. The next friday rolls around…nothing!! So she texts…”babes did something happen? Are you okay? Are you still coming?”. He replys (the day he is suppose to already be there). “Oh something came up at my church,its been a crazy week.”. She is not even hurt but dumb-founded that a grown ass man,almost 50 years of age.couldnt even shoot her a simple text. Who raised you? That is beyond disrespectful and cruel to me. Needless to say…then…he trys to aploligize and says I really want to talk to you. She says “Yeah….you wait on that call like I waited on mine!”. #ChilePlease #BoyBye #Strike1,2&3 all in one. There is nothing you can say to fix that. Your words now mean absolutely nothing.
Other peoples time is valuable and so are their feelings.
Thanks for listening….
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